Give or Take a Life

Mark 14:1-13

 

After hearing that song, several questions stab at my heart and I want

  you to wrestle with them, too

    -have I ever done anything like that?

    -have I ever done anything that radical, that extravagant for God?

    -have I ever done anything that radical, that extravagant for God

       not because it was necessary, not because I felt obligated, not

       because of who would sit up and take notice, not because I

       thought there'd be anything in it for me?

    -have I ever done anything that radical, that extravagant for God

       simply and purely because I love Him?

         --think about that for a moment

 

Words don't come easy for me this morning

 

You see, sometimes we preachers talk about comfort zones—because

  it sounds like (and makes us feel like) we’re really preaching

   -we can even raise our voices a little and develop a rhythm

 

‘Gotta get out of your comfort zone and make our church open to all

‘Gotta get out of your comfort zone and share your faith

‘Gotta get out of your comfort zone and give more money

‘Gotta get out of your comfort zone and serve on a mission trip...and

  love the unlovable...and reach the unreachable

 

I’m telling you—that will preach!

 

But this morning we're confronted with a different kind of comfort

  zone...one that’s quite private, almost secret...

   -it’s a comfort zone that is much more difficult to leave than any of 

      those listed above

       --it makes a mission trip to a leper colony in India seem like a day

           at Worlds of Fun

          

It’s the comfort zone of our personal, individual relationship with God

  -frankly, some have been so comfortable for so long you will reject

    what I'm about to say—but I'm going to preach it anyway

  -some have been so comfortable for so long you may get angry with

      me for what I'm about to say—but I need to preach it anyway

  -some of you will hear the Holy Spirit speak deep inside...and God

     will mercifully break your heart

       --sure, you’ll no longer be comfortable, but you will know the joy

           that comes from being broken and spilled out before holy God

  -if that happens we won't need to wait 4 months 'til Andy gets here

    to have real revival

 

If we’re honest, most of us view the world and our lives like they are

  an interstate highway—that’s our life philosophy

    -I-70 runs east and west with 4+ lanes and a median in between

       --median normally is about 20 yards across

    -every person lives somewhere within confines of that highway

       --we, and everyone else, are either heading toward God, away

           from Him, or we are somewhere comfortably in the middle

 

I'm convinced that's how most of us see life

  -most people in middle America opt for some safe, middle ground

       --I’m not some Jesus fanatic or some religious kook, but not I’m

           bad person, either

  -and if we stay with our interstate philosophy, those of us in the

     median aren't really running away from God, so we must be safe

       --but the hard truth is, in God's eyes, they are not OK

 

Here’s the problem:  that philosophy of life is totally wrong—because

  when we’re dealing with faith, there is no median...no fence to sit on

   -there’s no in between—we’re all running to God or away from Him

     --that’s not a pleasant thing to hear

   -and this morning’s text tends to back us into the corner of either/or

      — and frankly, we don't like to think in those terms

 

The problem is that the Bible is quite bold and perfectly clear (which,

  of course, is why so many reject it)

   -Acts 4:12 à Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other

  other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved.

    --do you hear any middle ground in that?  what about John 14:6?

 

Jesus never allows anyone to go halfway...people would come up

  and say, "Hey, Jesus, You seem like a cool guy to hang out with...so

  what's it take to be a member of Your gang?"

    -now remember, Jesus knows His time on earth is short—He

       needs to lay a broad foundation on which to build the church

         --attracting the greatest number of people would seem to be

             pretty critical to His mission

    -yet time after time after time He had a radical response à  “You

        wanna' be in My gang?  It's My way all the way or no way at all.”

 

Take, for instance, Mark 8:34 à  Then He called the crowd to Him

  along with His disciples and said, "If anyone would come after Me,

  He must deny Himself and take up His cross and follow Me."

    -these words were not given to the super-spiritual...they were for

       the crowd to consider

         --not exactly a way to win friends and build a big church

 

Or listen to Luke 14:25-33  [Read]

  -let’s face it:  that's not the Christianity many of us know...but it’s the

     only kind there is

      --I challenge you to find any middle ground in Jesus’ words

 

Our Jesus story is quickly coming to an end as we read Mark 14

  -it's now Tuesday evening...Jesus will be arrested in 48 hours

     --Mark tells this part of the story by framing it

         ---remember how he likes to do that so often?

         ---Mark starts a story then interrupts it with another...then he

              finally goes back to finish the first one     

     --first of all, he sets the stage for Jesus to be betrayed

 

Read Mark 14:1-2

 

Then, almost from nowhere, a woman comes onto the scene--Mark

  gives no details about her

   -she is nameless, faceless

      --perhaps young/innocent, perhaps old/saintly, maybe a prostitute

   -evidently none of that matters now—not to us, Mark, even to Jesus

      --what matters is what she does

 

Read Mark 14:3

 

The custom of the day was for a host to pour a few drops of perfumed

  oil on an important guest                         

    -Greeks/Romans believed pure nard was a gift reserved for a king

       --this woman breaks custom by doing what the host should have

            already done

       --more than custom is broken that day...instead of a couple of

            drops (which would have been pretty significant and costly)...

            this woman does the unthinkable...she breaks the entire jar

              ---this is more than generous...more than a little over the top

       --this is radical...it’s sacrificial...it’s extravagant—and it is love

 

Read Mark 14:4-5

 

And precisely because of that, it really perturbs some of the disciples

  -in v. 5, literally "kept on murmuring" (word refers to horses snorting)

 

But then look at how Jesus responds à  Read Mark 14:6-9

  -a literal, word-for-word translation of v.8 à  what she had she did

     --reminds me of the widow who gave her last two coins

         ---neither of them holds anything back for herself

 

Which is exactly what God desires and requires of us

  -to give Him whatever we have...but it’s not for the reason you think

     --Jesus doesn’t need this woman's perfumed oil

     --God didn't need the widow's two coins

     --God doesn't need anything of yours—not your money or talents

  -but the point is for us to realize we don't need anything we have

     (including life itself)...and our only need is to surrender all to Him

 

It also reminds me of a conversation in the middle of Mark chapter 10

  -"What do I have to do to inherit eternal life?"

     --"You know the commandments..."

  -"Yeah, but I've kept all of those."

     --"OK, there's still one more thing.  Sell everything you own and

           give it to the poor...then come, follow Me."

 

Jesus isn't asking the guy to buy his way into heaven

  -Jesus is asking him to give up the one thing standing between him

     and God

  -and Jesus is asking you and me to do the same thing

   --money

   --career

   --secret little sin that's actually tearing your life apart

   --relationship

   --pride

   --comfort

   --safety

       ---may God have mercy on us when we refuse to surrender

       ---and God have mercy on us preachers who often try to soften

            Jesus’ words...and when we lie by saying things like:

              ----“If you follow Jesus, He’s not going to call you to be a

                      missionary in Africa.”

              ----“If you follow Jesus, you don’t have to give up anything.”

              ----“If you follow Jesus, not too much has to change, really. 

                      You can pretty much keep living just the way you are.”

       ---and those things are ALL lies!

            ----who am I to presume what God is going to call you to do?

            ----you may be led into a situation where you will be asked to

                   lay down your life for your faith

                     -----and none of us realizes what Jesus is asking of us if

                             we convince ourselves that following Him is no big

                             deal, really...

       ---only way to soften Jesus’ words is to lie—there’s no other way

 

Remember v. 5?

  -when the snorting horses complain about extravagant love?

  -John 12:4-6 gives us a little insight into what was really happening

      --v. 4 à it was Judas Iscariot who was doing the murmuring

      --more importantly, John 12:6 reveals the real motive behind his

          protest à  He did not say this because he cared about the poor

          but because he was a thief; as keeper of  the money bag, he

          used to help himself to what was put into it.

 

Woman à  What can I do for Jesus?  What can I give Jesus?

Judas à     What can Jesus do for me?  What can Jesus give me?

 

If that weren't enough, the hard part about this story is that it doesn't

  end there à  Read Mark 14:10-11

 

Judas betrays Jesus...he sells out...he double-crosses Him

And the question that begs answering is "yeah, but why?"

  -from what we read in John 12, it could have simply been money

  -Luke and John also tell us Satan was behind it all (no doubt true)

     --still, many smart people have tried to find a deeper reason why

 

I suppose we should just let Luke/John's explanation stand alone

 -except that both say "Satan entered" Judas, which means Judas

   could never have been a true follower of Jesus...never a "Christian"

 -which means it is possible for someone to be in the inner circle and

    know all the right religious buzzwords and dress the right way and

    read the right books and still not be committed to Christ

 

I'm not trying to get you to doubt the security of your salvation

 -but I am saying that if you’re relying on looking like a good Christian

   and doing good Christian things to bluff your way through, then you

   have missed the point...missed the cross...and you’ll miss heaven

 -in Matthew 7, Jesus warns à  Many will say to Me on that  day,

   "Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name

   drive out demons and perform many miracles?"  Then I will tell

   them plainly, "I never knew you."

 

That means you can sing a beautiful gospel song, and still not be

  known by Jesus

 

That means you can give a boatload of money to the church, and still

  not be known by Jesus

 

That means you can preach a pulpit-pounding sermon, and still not

  be known by Jesus

 

In his book, Disappointment with God, Philip Yancey describes the

  turning point in his life

  -he had been brought up in a conservative church in the South

     --went through all the motions, jumped through the religious hoops

  -he attended a hard-core, fundamental Bible college

  -doing "student missions" and writing reports on his "witnessing"

    --except there wasn't any evangelism going on

    --Yancey watched TV and then wrote bogus stories describing all

         the people who had been saved by his incredible witness

  -he was perfectly fine with his double life until one of the weekly

     prayer groups with the other student missionaries

      --Yancey had never volunteered to pray...'til one night in February

In this prayer, he starts rambling, talking about the Good Samaritan

  -he admits he's supposed to feel same concern for the lost as the

     Good Samaritan showed to the man lying on the side of the road...

     but he honestly doesn’t (and never has)...and he is tired of living a

     lie, pretending to be a great Christian when he wasn’t even sure

     he believed in Jesus at all

       -here’s what happened...in Yancey’s own words à

 

In the middle of my prayer, just as I was describing how little I cared for our assigned targets of compassion, I saw that story in a new light...in the internal screen of my brain, those two figures [in the parable] changed.  The kindly Samaritan took on the face of Jesus.  The Jew, the pitiable victim of a highway robbery, took on another face too—...my own

          In a flash I saw Jesus reaching down with a moistened rag to clean my wounds and [slow] the flow of blood.  And as he bent over, I saw myself, the wounded robbery victim, open my eyes...Then, as if watching in slow motion, I saw myself spit at him, full in the face.  It stunned me.

          I had always found security in my [disbelief].  No longer.  I had caught a new glimpse of myself.  Perhaps in all my self-assured and mocking skepticism I was the neediest one of all.

 

 

Phillip Yancey isn't the only one who has spit in the face of Jesus

  -there’s Judas...and the rich, young man who heard what Jesus

    asked of him, but who, in the end, turned around and walked away

  -then there’s also everyone of us who believe we're sitting safely

     and comfortably in the middle...and that just because we don't see

     ourselves spitting in Jesus’ face then we convince ourselves we

     must be OK

       --but the truth is that our indifference and smug self-confidence

           are even worse than spitting in the face of God's Son

 

So which one will you be?

  -Judas?  taking your life and the life of the One who died for you

  -the woman?  giving your life to the One who gave His life for you

 

There is, remember, no middle ground...